Then ask your partner what he loves about your body, and write it down. Challenge your guy to a heart-pounding activity like rock climbing or white-water rafting. Chances are, this doesn't happen often enough. When you give him a little gratitude, it's a huge bonding moment for him. To reestablish the bond, do something that makes you feel good in your skin at least once a day — treat yourself to a massage, go apple picking with your kids, wear the jeans that give you an ego boost the minute you slide them on. Research shows that new and adventurous activities may stimulate the brain to produce dopamine, a neurotransmitter that plays a key role in sexual desire. Comments Add a comment.
The excitement, even the passion, are MIA.
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It also gets you in the mood by reducing stress and boosting your self-esteem. You need to feel close to him to be inspired to make love, and he often needs sex to feel close to you, explains Berman. How to break the stalemate? Better yet, visit him at work. Comments Add a comment. If you need another reason to exercise, consider this: